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I mean honestly. What does a girl have to do to get a sexually-assured heterosexual male who is not the country-fried negative brain cell variety with an interesting past, good conversational ability, social graces, a few unmentionable skills in bed, decent looks, and minimal baggage slash not-too-close-to-home circle of friends? WHAT?
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the relationships we have should be to the tune of the beatles, or tony, or sondheim, or fucking strauss god dammnit.
What people like you and I need, what we DESERVE is someone who will not necessarily give as much as we do but appreciate what we have to offer. We give, love, and encourage to a fault. Thats just how it is and no matter how many times it bites us in the ass we will never stop and decidedly so. Therefore, in the end, all we really need is someoneto recognize that. Maybe we give because growing up our parents gave us everything we needed and more and thats what we know, or maybe we give because we just genuinely like others to feel good. I think its a mix of both. Either way, we have been given things our entire life,and thats how we learned that gifts don't necessarily solve everything, make us feel better, or fill-in whatever was missing in the first place. We truly like to give rather than get, but more than that, the piece of the puzzle that needs to fit into a healthy relationship for us is appreciation.
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*God only knows
God only knows what I'd be without you...
- The Beach Boys
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Sorry to say it but you might have to move...
What must a girl do to find that man? This question strikes me as being akin to asking what does a girl have to do to win the lottery? You have to play to lose my darling you have to play.
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